Thursday, April 7, 2011
Mark me absent
Just want you ladies to know why I've been absent on HWHL of late.
It has to do with part of Sue's post too actually: not being critical of others.
When I'm participating in HWHL de rigeur, my focus tends to be a bit, well, health-related. It becomes a part of my vision, my rose-colored-health glasses, if you will.
Problem is, that vision tends to make me more critical of a certain really wonderful man in my life who is not blessed with my genetics, my vegetable-loving disposition, or the time I have to indulge my weight-lifting/walking proclivities.
I've tried not to be critical, prayed about it and held my tongue, but my mind still goes there and those thoughts seep out of my pores in subtle ways unwillingly.
And it's just not good.
So, although I'm still doing all these good things for myself, I'm not as self-aware about it. And by not deliberately thinking about it, I'm less critical.
And that's good.
A strong marriage is important, don't you think.
Posted by Apis Melliflora at 11:36 AM